If you want more passion in your marriage, there's no stronger aphrodisiac than respect. It's the most expensive way to try to control your spouse Marriage counseling may seem like an important purchase, but it's actually a tragic waste because it diverts funds from something that really would help your marriage: Self-care.
Self-care means not only getting enough rest and nourishment, it means that you make it a priority to do three pleasurable things every single day.
The second a guy starts negging me, in any way, I like to laugh in his face, as loudly as possible, so that he knows this is not OK, it will not get you laid, and please stop reading books about being a pick-up artist because women are laughing at you when you do that. Dating anyone who actually describes themselves as a pick-up artist.
Telling you you're "not like other girls." That's just a sneaky way of saying, "I hate women, but I don't hate you." Let me tell you something, if he hates women, one day, probably soon, he's going to hate you.
"Dates" that suspiciously only happen after midnight. This guy owns like eight fedoras, and he's going to want to show them to you. When he says "maybe" you can get together on Friday rather than just MAKING A PLAN. Not being fully clear about whether you're getting drinks or dinner. Talking about all the other girls who are interested in him so you feel like you have to prove you're the best one.
Sometimes you have to do some sleuthing to figure out that they do this, but once you find out, run. Just grow a vagina and tell me you're not interested in another date.7. You are insanely gorgeous and funny and cool and he is a penis with eyes.13.
Your husband would like to make you happy, but if he can't he may stop trying. To find out which skills you need to work on to experience love and connection that lasts a lifetime, take the quiz at
Relationships naturally take a little energy and if you're depleted, you give your relationship no chance to thrive.
Showing up delighted instead of depleted is indispensable for a gratifying and intimate partnership.
Chances are good that you married an imperfect man who's perfect for you.
Instead of trying to pry his feelings out of him, consider bringing respect back into the relationship by honoring your husband's masculinity and his choices for himself.